So your girl is upset. Maybe you’re to blame. Maybe someone else is to blame. All we know for certain is she doesn’t like your ass very much right now. Not to worry though, ya’ll are not about to go your separate ways just as yet.

Dr. Kamz is here to help you.

You’ve gotta play it cool. Act like a player, move like a player, talk like a player. Basically besides the actual art of playing her, you’ve gotta be a player.

Anticipate her mood for the next couple of days. Follow her movements slowly. Let her lead the pace for the both of you. Allow her to enjoy as much of your company as she requires and as well allow her – her own space. Don’t be caught up in her face all the time. Don’t be too distant either. Even though she detests you right now, she’ll love you for it.

When you feel the scales of her aggravation are tipping back to the side you want them to, it’s time for you to stop being the follower. It’s time to pull out the big guns. That 1 player move that will have her back in your arms and back where you really want her ;) if you know what I mean.

You’ve gotta work with your strengths now. If you’re that typa nigga who can cook up a storm then you’re in luck. If not – you’ve gotta make sure you know a good takeaway joint that delivers fresh, scrumptious and close to gourmet grub.

It’s simple dawg. You know what time she gets off work or when she returns from school right? Make yourself free for about an hour before she does and for the rest of the evening after that. Aint much to ask for yea?

Aaaayt cool, now all you have to do is get yourselves a bottle of some nice red, preferably her favourite. If you’re whipping up a meal, get yourself all the ingredients you’ll need for a 3 course meal that can be prepared in an hour and a half or so. I suggest simple.

Cheese and crackers for starters, a simple chicken and pasta with a salad as a main + cake with strawberries and whipped cream for dessert.

Simple !!!

When she gets into the house after a long day, greet her at the door with a single red rose, a glass of some red wine and a delightful smile. That’s your ice-breaker. Tell her she doesn’t have to think about anything tonight other than being absolutely comfortable. That will get her warming up to you slowly. Tell her to follow you to the bathroom because you have a nice surprise for her in there.

Let her find a steaming room with rose petals scattered out on the floor and a hot bubble bath ran for her. Now she’ll start to like you just a bit more. Chat to her for a bit, find out how her day was, and just enjoy her. Tell her to head straight to the kitchen when she’s done. Make sure she’s super comfortable then let her soak her day away in peace.

You’ve got a meal to prepare remember.

Oh yes, Music … Hahaha – how could I forget that. Cook up a soothing playlist with some timeless love renditions in it and just let that play in the background on a medium to low volume. Make sure the music doesn’t stop the whole evening. It’s of paramount importance. Ambience is EVERYTHING.

Now that that’s out of the way. Lay out the starter on a single plate for the both of you to share. That shouldn’t take 5 minutes. Begin to prepare your main course as well as map out how you’re going to have a killer presentation for it as well as the dessert later .

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About an hour or so and a delicious meal later

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By now you’ve managed to treat your woman like a princess. She’s been pampered. She’s been spoilt a bit. She’s been fed and thanks to the wine she’s pretty low on her inhibitions too.

You’ve kept the conversation far from serious, it’s just you and her in your zone. Your relationship is looking up. If the dessert didn’t get you back to where you need to be then I’m sorry to say there’s nothing this article can do for you.

But if it did, which it most probably did, you and your girl are about to have a REALLY nice end to your evening, which should help knock some perspective back into your lives. Remember when stuff goes upside down and the fire is just not burning as hard as it used to, that’s a golden opportunity for ya’ll to fall in love again.

Always go out of your way to fix things. You’ve always got to try.

You’ve always got to try.

You can thank me later.

KamzThxPxpe